Shoes that Pinch

by Kelly Knowlden

Sometimes children see a pair of shoes that they think are neat and they want them. The shoes may have been shoes similar to what some famous person wore. Or perhaps they have a special effect or neat logo that is wanted. Behind that want is a world view that says “having these shoes will bring me popularity (and therefore pleasure), satisfaction, and delight.” “Other kids will like me.” “They will make me look cool.” “I will be in the IN crowd.”

Note that those promises are all based on my perception of reality, of what is important and what will last. These are all lies of the Deceiver. It does not matter if the shoes are sturdy, durable, safe or the right size. If they pinch, or rub, or cause fallen arches or give any of the other possible problems with footwear, the bottom line is, “Will I be better liked (and therefore feel better about myself.)?”

World view counts. If I continually promote or define the cultural shouting to my children that what they wear, have or want is most important, then I must be prepared to deal with the battles that will come when they demand something that I do not deem appropriate or good. If I am making choices for them that are consistent with biblical truth and guiding them in seeing their value, then I will need to battle the cultural shouting. Either way, there will be a battle. As for me, I want to be fighting on the side of TRUTH beyond the cultural fads and styles. It will demand a large investment. The result will be young people who have a world view that says there are no arbitrary decisions even in choosing shoes!